Nancy Derasmo psychic medium discussing her autism journey with her two boys aj and Alex . Accentuating the abilities NOT the disabilities , presuming and assuming competence has been her mantra to get her sons both to the next level . Through a teaching tool called RPM , her nonverbal son Alex is now able to fully communicate through “spelling” his wants and desires on a letter board . Her son aj displays his gifts through his incredible musical talents . “Never give up , they are in there more than you know”! Nancy says… “these children are magnificent you just need to see the beauty !!!”